Valentine's Day

[LeftyGreenMario]

if you're not interested in romance, then you're not interested in romance. people should stop trying to convince you to fall in love

this, plus trying to find love is really stupid since it'll end up bad.

It's better if you just go on your merry way.

That's exactly what I'm doing. Being myself is so easy.

 

[Zae]

if you're not interested in romance, then you're not interested in romance. people should stop trying to convince you to fall in love

this, plus trying to find love is really stupid since it'll end up bad.

It's better if you just go on your merry way.

That's exactly what I'm doing. Being myself is so easy.

Good, thats the mindset you need to have.

Being yourself is usually the most important factor.

 

[Soundless Voice]

I'm probably never going to be able to get a valentine/boyfriend, and I get slightly ticked off of someone says "You just haven't found the right person", because when you put mental disorders and instabilities in place, you'd see how it'd be extremely hard, if not impossible, to be in a relationship. Either way, I've never really been interested in boys and stuff anyways.

My mom doesn't really "celebrate" Valentine's Day (being honest here, she hates the holiday), but that doesn't really bother me.

Calm down, you're only 13 :P

That has nothing to do with it. The mental instabilities put into place really does make it near impossible. And even if I was stable, I probably wouldn't even want to get a boyfriend anyways. I've always hung out with guys more than girls, but I've never been interested in a real relationship anyways.

 

[Shyghoul]

usually my parents buy me candy on VD but i'm not on good terms with them now so i'll probably just buy it myself and go through the day as a normal day

 

[Specific Neptune]

Romance is disgusting and boring.

Don't *bleep* on romance, it will find you someday. *bleep* on valentines day all you like, just don't *bleep* on love.

Gee, a variation of the "you just haven't found the right person" argument.

I can express myself whatever I want, and I'm not telling people that they should hate/love romance either.

you have a point

i suppose i sort of have a personal war going on with edginess right now, and you might know that that's what edgy people often say. But they often say other stuff too, which makes me think that I was wrong about you. My apologies.



I will say one thing to you all, however. love is literally all around us, whether you like it or not. It can be between two little love birds, nestling in a thicket of clothes at the mall, or it can be towards your very own family. You can choose not to embrace it, but it's just gonna bite you in the ass and tug on that bad boy until your nickname is blossom. YEAH THAT'S RIGHT, I USE METAPHORES. I can accept you if you don't want to love anybody, go ahead, you don't have to, I won't force you, you'll force yourself someday. Or not, heck, you could be an interesting case.

But there is one thing that you must never, ever do with your life. NEVER ACT EDGY. EDGY PEOPLE ARE ANNOYING. Saying that your heart is split into a million pieces and you'll never love again? That's edgy. That's annoying. Making yourself out to be some crazy maniac, when in reality you're just an average person who the world does not revolve around. That's edgy. That's annoying. Acting like you're some sort of badass while trying to impress people, when you're most likely a useless mong. That's edgy. That's annoying.

And for the love of god, if you have any sort of decency, make sure that if you're going to snog your other half, do it in private. We don't need to see that, thanks. Pecks on the lips and a few hugs are alright, but when you're basically molesting eachother in a bus shelter, and guys like me have to sit there, pushing your other half off my shoulder, that's wrong, that's annoying, and that warrants a few harsh words and maybe a punch up the bracket. I won't do that, though, cause that's edgy. The more you know.

Have a good valentine's day, and please, don't snog in public.

P.S: Snogging around your family is still in public, unless they don't give two shits. They're your family, you should know if they give two shits or not.

 

[Dr. Javelin]

Oh, sure they are.

But do you imagine dating someone who has a close, sisterly relationship with her twin sister?

am i missing something here? i don't see what's wrong with dating someone who's close to their siblings

also this year i'm going skiing on feb 14 instead of worrying about love problems, so woooo

 

[fantanoice]

@Neptune - Pretty sure that's not what Edgy means.

Spoiler: Oh hey, my Valentine arrived

 

[Fawfulthegreat64]

Well, at least my darling told me that she may want to get together again one day.

Now I just have to wonder how long she means by that.

 

[fantanoice]

Wait you want to go back to her?

 

[Driftmaster130]

if you're not interested in romance, then you're not interested in romance. people should stop trying to convince you to fall in love

exactly that. When I tell people I have no interest in relationships, etc, they're like "omg you have serious problems" like being asexual is like a crime or something

 

[Fawfulthegreat64]

Wait you want to go back to her?

I can't imagine being with anyone else, and without her I feel empty inside.

 

[Zae]

Wait you want to go back to her?

I can't imagine being with anyone else, and without her I feel empty inside.

.....you are making quite the mistake here.

Things like this where people will just use others for their own gain. You really need to grow out this mindset you have or you're gonna feel much worse.

 

[LeftyGreenMario]

Well, at least my darling told me that she may want to get together again one day.

Now I just have to wonder how long she means by that.

I'd distrust her. You know, maybe slap her face and move on. More importantly, move on.

Wait you want to go back to her?

I can't imagine being with anyone else, and without her I feel empty inside.

Sorry if I sound cold, but please do not dwell on this. It's detrimental to your health, and you'll see that eventually, your feelings for her will change.

 

[Anton]

if you're not interested in romance, then you're not interested in romance. people should stop trying to convince you to fall in love

exactly that. When I tell people I have no interest in relationships, etc, they're like "omg you have serious problems" like being asexual is like a crime or something

I'm not so sure it's so much the not-understanding-asexuality as it's noting that one personally not being romantic does not permit one to act like all romance for everyone else is disgusting and to be frowned upon (is how I'm feeling about this). As much as people need to understand that people who are asexual or aromantic (or by personal choice) may not want to be involved in those sorts of things, people equally need to understand that those who are not asexual or aromantic will probably be into it. I don't criticize other men for being attracted to women, do I? 22 don't answer that >:[

Oh, sure they are.

But do you imagine dating someone who has a close, sisterly relationship with her twin sister?

 

[LeftyGreenMario]

Oh, sure they are.

But do you imagine dating someone who has a close, sisterly relationship with her twin sister?

am i missing something here? i don't see what's wrong with dating someone who's close to their siblings

You probably don't understand identical twin bonds. Twins share a very special relationship. If I were to date somebody, I will feel guilty for leaving my sister alone, for instance, and I'd like my sister to be here as well.

 

[fantanoice]

Oh, sure they are.

But do you imagine dating someone who has a close, sisterly relationship with her twin sister?

am i missing something here? i don't see what's wrong with dating someone who's close to their siblings

You probably don't understand identical twin bonds. Twins share a very special relationship. If I were to date somebody, I will feel guilty for leaving my sister alone, for instance, and I'd like my sister to be here as well.

Resolution: The two of you date twins

 

[Fawfulthegreat64]

Well, at least my darling told me that she may want to get together again one day.

Now I just have to wonder how long she means by that.

I'd distrust her. You know, maybe slap her face and move on. More importantly, move on.

Wait you want to go back to her?

I can't imagine being with anyone else, and without her I feel empty inside.

Sorry if I sound cold, but please do not dwell on this. It's detrimental to your health, and you'll see that eventually, your feelings for her will change.

I will never stop loving her. And I would never hurt her, ever.

 

[fantanoice]

Even though she hurt you and doesn't give a big enough crap about you to give a straight answer as to whether you'll get back together or not?

I don't want to sound rude or harsh but come on, don't be somebody's doorstep.

 

[Zae]

Even though she hurt you and doesn't give a big enough crap about you to give a straight answer as to whether you'll get back together or not?

I don't want to sound rude or harsh but come on, don't be somebody's doorstep.

I have this strange feeling he's not going to listen anyway. Reality is the best teacher of course so i guess he'll learn the hard away.

 

[Fawfulthegreat64]

Even though she hurt you and doesn't give a big enough crap about you to give a straight answer as to whether you'll get back together or not?

I don't want to sound rude or harsh but come on, don't be somebody's doorstep.

She just misunderstood me, is all. Can't really blame her for wanting a break from me after I was such an asshole by wasting my life here and on video games when I should have been giving her more attention.

 

[Zae]

Even though she hurt you and doesn't give a big enough crap about you to give a straight answer as to whether you'll get back together or not?

I don't want to sound rude or harsh but come on, don't be somebody's doorstep.

She just misunderstood me, is all. Can't really blame her for wanting a break from me after I was such an asshole by wasting my life here and on video games when I should have been giving her more attention.

this sounds more like a excuse then anything

unless you were on super mario boards and playing video games 7 days straight every week this shouldnt have happened.

Or maybe she found you being a gamer to be excessively boring and she dumped for that.

So many possibilities.

 

[Fawfulthegreat64]

Even though she hurt you and doesn't give a big enough crap about you to give a straight answer as to whether you'll get back together or not?

I don't want to sound rude or harsh but come on, don't be somebody's doorstep.

She just misunderstood me, is all. Can't really blame her for wanting a break from me after I was such an asshole by wasting my life here and on video games when I should have been giving her more attention.

this sounds more like a excuse then anything

unless you were on super mario boards and playing video games 7 days straight every week this shouldnt have happened.

Or maybe she found you being a gamer to be excessively boring and she dumped for that.

So many possibilities.

except she likes video games too, even drew an anime Fawful because he was my favorite character. I still have that.

The reason I can't let her go is because I have so many beautiful memories of when we were together, it just seemed so perfect. We like, never argued or anything.

 

[Zae]

Even though she hurt you and doesn't give a big enough crap about you to give a straight answer as to whether you'll get back together or not?

I don't want to sound rude or harsh but come on, don't be somebody's doorstep.

She just misunderstood me, is all. Can't really blame her for wanting a break from me after I was such an asshole by wasting my life here and on video games when I should have been giving her more attention.

this sounds more like a excuse then anything

unless you were on super mario boards and playing video games 7 days straight every week this shouldnt have happened.

Or maybe she found you being a gamer to be excessively boring and she dumped for that.

So many possibilities.

except she likes video games too, even drew an anime Fawful because he was my favorite character. I still have that.

The reason I can't let her go is because I have so many beautiful memories of when we were together, it just seemed so perfect. We like, never argued or anything.

*shrug* honestly feels like you were just being manipulated.

Almost every couple argues about something they dont see eye to eye on, if you dont argue on anything then somebody is sucking up.

 

[Turboo]

okay im going to be honest here and say that regardless of whether or not shes in love w/ someone else right now it's creepy as shit for you to act like she's just taking a break from you and that she's still your girlfriend and that she's perfect and that you'll always love her

even if its hard to just toss your feelings in the trash its not healthy for you to be obsessing over her this much, and honestly, her telling you that she might get together with you again seems like an attempt to get you to calm down. if i was in her situation, i wouldn't necessarily do the same thing, but i'd probably be pretty uncomfortable

besides, if earlier you hardly talked and she didn't return your emails for a month and never found anything to argue about, that sounds like a pretty strained/empty relationship

 

[Smg2daisy]

He is just like my darling last year when I rejected him hard.

Trust me, he won't listen to you all. He is just like Cirdec, and he will treat her as the only one in his life.
Just wish the girl would be like me...